Want

Why do we want what we can't have?

Found this rule : “absence makes the heart grow fonder.”

This is SO right on target.

We're not only wired to want what we can't have, but we're also wired to want what we really don't want.

We get taken advantage of because we are giving? I hate being taken for granted.... but I put myself out there and that's what happens. It sucks.

"Life is a mystery sometimes. How to comes and goes at its own discretion, how it likes to take us on rides of the unexpected - life is something that we can never truly understand. But through it all, through all that life brings at us, we learn to become better people, accept the unforgettable and love those around us unconditionally. Life teaches us all that. No matter how we don’t want to admit it, Life teaches us all that we need to know. However, at the end of the day, it is up to us to determine what we want to learn and take in and what we want to leave behind. Life is our foundation, we are the action takers."

"Attitudes are self created. You are free to choose to be victimized by circumstance or people, or you could choose to look at life with an open mind and be victorious. No one else can choose your attitude for you. Your perspective and choice of attitude gives you the power to be in control, and that is the essence of freedom. "

I overcame

I got the GRE's over with!! I overcame a challenge and conquered it. I may or may not have to take it over but I tried my best and stayed positive and confident. I succeeded in doing well and I am proud of myself. :)


















BELIEVE IN YOURSELF :)

You may not be her first, her last, or her only.
She loved before she may love again.
But if she loves you now, what else matters?
She's not perfect, you aren't either,
and the two of you may never be perfect together
but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice,
and admit to being human and making mistakes,
hold onto her and give her the most you can.
She may not be thinking about you
every second of the day, but she will give you a part of
her that she knows you can break her heart.
So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze
and don't expect more than she can give.
Smile when she maked you happy,
let her know when she makes you mad,
and miss her when she's not there.
-Bob Marley.

LOVE like theres no tomorrow

“No matter how kind or responsible a man was, if she didn’t feel any passion, she couldn’t help but think she’d be ‘settling’ for someone, and she didn’t want to settle.”

nicholas sparks- true believer

“That thing, that moment, when you kiss someone and everything around becomes hazy and the only thing in focus is you and this person and you realize that that person is the only person that you’re supposed to kiss for the rest of your life, and for one moment you get this amazing gift and you want to laugh and you want to cry because you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared that that it will go away all at the same time.”

“I don’t believe in guilt, I believe in living on impulse as long as you never intentionally hurt another person, and don’t judge people in your life. I think you should live completely free.”

~ Angelina Jolie

Keepin it real

loveee this :)

It’s not so much that we’re afraid of change or so in love with the old ways, but it’s that place in between that we fear.
“Have some fire. Be unstoppable. Be a force of nature.Be better than anyone here, and don’t give a damn what anyone thinks.”

"Anger cannot be overcome by anger. If someone is angry with you, and you show anger in return, the result is a disaster. On the other hand, if you control your anger and show its opposite – love, compassion, tolerance and patience – not only will you remain peaceful, but the other person’s anger will also diminish."

— The Dalai Lama

"Don’t bend; don’t water it down; don’t try to make it logical; don’t edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly."

— Franz Kafka

"You’re going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it’s always their actions you should judge them by. It’s actions, not words, that matter."

— Nicholas Sparks

Let it go

You gotta give a little to get a lot...

The key is to get to know people and trust them to be who they are. Instead, we trust people to be who we want them to be - and when they’re not, we cry.
— David Duchovny

Nobody but you is responsible for your life. It doesn’t matter what your mama did; it doesn’t matter what your daddy didn’t do. You are responsible for your life. … You are responsible for the energy that you create for yourself, and you’re responsible for the energy that you bring to others. Oprah Winfrey, The Final Show

We must be willing to risk again and love again. Can you think of anything more important? What do we work for? What do we strive for? What do we suffer for? What do we hope for? It’s love. It’s life. To miss it will be your greatest loss. Leo Buscaglia (Choose Life)